For teenage boys and especially for all girls:
1. If someone, whether it's your teacher, the school's peon, office boy, watchman, or driver, lab attendant, or an older student, is calling you alone, don't go to them.
2. If the Madrasa teacher, Qari Sahib, or Imam Sahib calls you to their personal residence or room, don't go, and be sure to tell your parents about it.
3. If a shopkeeper in the village or city asks you to come inside the shop, don't go. (Girls older than 8 or 10 years shouldn't go to the shop at all)
4. Don't take food from anyone outside your family members. If you have to take it, don't eat it, but put it in your pocket and throw it away later.
5. If a stranger tells you that your father, uncle, maternal uncle, or brother is standing in such-and-such place and is calling you, tell them, "My father, brother, or maternal uncle should come here themselves."
6. If the teacher or Qari tells you to bring something from the room, and you feel that he is also coming behind you, then apologize and refuse to go inside.
7. Whenever an elder, teacher, Qari, or Imam Sahib tries to force you or tries to touch you despite your refusal, immediately run towards where other students or people are.
8. If a teacher tells you that if you don't obey me, I will fail you, or you will get fewer marks, or you will go to hell, then inform your parents about this.
9. Keep a close eye on domestic servants and the masons, laborers, electricians, plumbers, or painters, etc., who have been called to do construction or repair work in the house. Sometimes these individuals have bad intentions towards women or children and are also guilty of theft, so negligence or blind trust on their part can harm you. Only allow trusted and well-known people into the house.
10. If any stranger tries to touch your body repeatedly while talking to you in a soft and sweet tone, try to get out of there quickly, and always be careful about that person. Tell it at home.
11. If you are caught somewhere and cannot get out of there, or you cannot free yourself from that person, and there is no one to save you, and God forbid, he manages to do something wrong to you, then never make the mistake of saying to him, "I will tell my father, I will tell..."
If you say such a thing, he will not leave you alive. If he threatens you that if you say anything at home, I will kill you, then tell him, "Okay... I won't tell." Later, come home and tell your parents the whole incident. There is no need to be ashamed because your parents will not tell anyone about it, but will take action against that person, and there is no need to be afraid because now your father or guardian or elders have found out about that person, they will interrogate him thoroughly.
12. When talking to strangers anywhere outside the house, keep a distance of two meters, do not let them come near you.
Please! Tell these things to your children, especially your daughters, in your own way. Whenever children are sitting together at home, give them such lectures in a friendly manner in the course of conversation, so that they remember them. Parents of girls going to university should also explain all this to them.
May Allah protect us all in this difficult time, Amen 🤲🏻
Ayesha ❤