This shows that if there is any bitterness between husband and wife, the woman should not sleep until they are both pleased with each other. It is mentioned in the Hadith that if the husband goes to sleep angry and the wife does not try to appease him, then the angels of Allah will curse her until she tries to appease him.
Nowadays, modern wives sulk and go to sleep over the slightest thing. They think that now the husband himself will appease us. But the Sharia says that the wife should appease the husband. And what do they want, that the husband should appease us and then we should also go to Paradise? SubhanAllah. The law is of the Sharia, not ours. So the Sharia says that when the husband is angry or the wife is angry, the wife should take the initiative.
This does not mean that if the wife gets angry over a legitimate matter, the husband should sit stubbornly. No. The husband will also be told, "First of all, why did you say something that hurt your wife's heart, made your wife angry, who always loves you, who is yours? Do you make your own people angry?" And if you have made her angry, then it is your responsibility to make your wife happy. So the man will also be questioned. But in this Hadith, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said to the woman, therefore women should accept this in their hearts that we should never let such a situation arise in life with our husband that he is angry with us and we are angry with him. If, God forbid, such a thing happens, then take the initiative to appease the husband. Then we will be worthy of going to Paradise.
In the Hadith, it is said that she should put her hand in her husband's hand and say, "I will not sleep until you are pleased with me." But the condition of today's women is that if they get angry even a little, and if the husband reaches out to appease them, they push their hand away. They say, "Don't touch me." Now tell me, will the woman who says "Don't touch me" to her husband, is this a sign of a woman of Paradise or of some other woman? So try to understand this and by ending your "ego", try to become according to what is said in the Hadith.
May Allah Almighty grant all Muslims the ability to live their lives according to the Hadith, Ameen Ya Rabb Al-Alameen.