*⚠ Sister-in-law ⚠*
We all know that
the word "Saali" is used in our society for the wife's sister....
Although the word does not seem very appropriate,
but let's start with this name...
Usually, the elder sisters of the wife are married, and even if they are unmarried, with time, seriousness and forbearance have come into their nature....
While the younger sisters of the wife are at that stage of life when every aspect of life seems beautiful and every turn seems charming...
In such a situation, the sister's marriage and a new person, i.e., the brother-in-law, being related to the house is also a unique color...
Due to the common practice of the society, these younger Saalis often joke with their brother-in-law and take great care of their brother-in-law...
Whenever the sister has to go to her parents' house,
often these Saalis give them complete time to save the sister and brother-in-law from boredom...
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Now let's talk about it from the man's perspective...
A proverb is famous in our society...
Saali...
Half the house owner...
Often when men sit among their dear friends, a strange smile appears on their faces in the name of younger Saalis...
Friends also help to deepen this smile with meaningful sentences...
This reality is strange but true, but it exists in the society...
Their Saalis are often unaware of this aspect of their brother-in-law...
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Now let's look at this aspect from the perspective of Islam...
According to Islam, there is Sharia veil between brother-in-law and Saali...
Brother-in-law is a non-Mahram of Saali, and due to his occasional presence inside the house, great care is required in this veil...
This is a reality that the girl's parents also turn a blind eye to...
Often brother-in-laws also consider this veil as an insult to them...
And Saalis ignore it with the thought that "our brother-in-law is like our brother"...
And this dangerous limit of inclination will not be known to anyone other than the brother-in-law...
And that brother-in-law will never tell his wife about this inclination...
This is such a silent poison that either that man knows about it or Allah Almighty knows the condition of his heart...
Men do not have enough faith to admit their actions...
Please! Don't fall into this test...
It is requested to the parents of the wife to make their other daughters observe Sharia veil from the son-in-law...
It is requested to the sisters of the wife to stay behind themselves so that the brother-in-law realizes that my Saalis are hesitant and shy...
And it is requested to the men that do not treat this relative relationship as free property and a merciless heart, and avoid harboring petty and useless desires in your heart...
May Allah Almighty make us understand the reality of this subtle issue, Amen.