How can a husband love his wife to the point of madness?
An interview with an old woman

Who spent fifty years with her husband peacefully and happily.

🍀 The woman was asked what the secret to this peaceful fifty-year life was?

Was she very skilled at cooking?

Or is her beauty the reason?

Or is it because of having many children, or is there another reason?

🍀 The old woman replied: A peaceful married life depends, after Allah's grace, on the woman. If a woman wants, she can make her home a paradise, and if she wants, she can make it the opposite, i.e., hell.

Don't mention wealth in this regard,
Many wealthy women have lives that are unbearable, and their husbands run away from them.

A happy married life is not caused by children either. There are many women who have dozens of children, yet they are deprived of their husband's love, and it even leads to divorce.

Many women are skilled at cooking, they cook all day long, but they still complain about their husband's mistreatment.

🍀 The female journalist who was interviewing was very surprised. She asked:
Then what is the secret to this prosperous life?

🍀 The old woman replied: When my husband is extremely angry, I resort to silence, but even in this silence, there is respect. I bow my head with regret.

On such occasions, some women become silent, but it includes an element of mockery, which should be avoided. A wise man immediately understands it.

🍀 The correspondent asked: Why don't you leave the room on such an occasion?

🍀 The old woman replied: No, doing so will make the husband think that you are running away from him,
You don't even want to listen to him.

On such an occasion, one should remain silent and should not oppose anything he says until he calms down.

🍀 When the husband calms down to some extent, I say:
Are you done talking?

Then I leave the room.

Because the husband is tired of talking and now needs some rest after shouting.

I leave the room and get busy with my usual tasks.

🍀 The female journalist asked: What do you do after that? Do you adopt the style of stopping communication? Do you not talk for a week or two?

🍀 The old woman replied: No!

This bad habit should always be avoided,

It is a double-edged sword,
When you don't talk to your husband for a week, at a time when he needs you to reconcile, he will get used to this situation, and then this thing will increase and take the form of dangerous hatred.

🍀 The journalist asked: Then what do you do?

🍀 The old woman said:
After two or three hours, I take a glass of juice or a cup of coffee to my husband and say in a loving manner: Please drink it.

In reality, the husband needs just that.

Then I start talking to him in a normal way.

He asks if I am angry with him?

I say: No.
After that, he apologizes for his harsh words and starts saying beautiful things.

The interviewer asked: And you accept his words?

🍀 The old woman said: Of course, I am not an amateur, I have complete confidence in myself.

Do you want me to believe everything my husband says when he is angry and not believe anything he says when he is calm?

The female journalist asked: And your self respect?

🍀 The old woman said:

The first thing is that my self-respect is only there
when my husband is happy with me
and our married life is peaceful.

The second thing is that there is no such thing as self-respect between husband and wife.

When men and women are each other's garments, then what kind of self-respect is there?
The End
From..
Muhammad Aajil Qasmi