Neglect of Domestic Training and Social Degradation
Khaama Bakaf ✍🏻 Muhammad Aadil Arariavi
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Nowadays, our society is going through many trials and moral tribulations. It is with regret that I must say that due to a lack of training and supervision in some Muslim families, boys and girls are going down the wrong paths, and then people put the entire burden on the scholars. Although scholars certainly fulfill their responsibilities according to their scope, the primary responsibility for social and family training lies with the parents and the family.
If a girl's or boy's behavior is wrong, then the first right is on the parents to show understanding and responsibility in the matter of their children's education, environment, friendships, and clothing. Children are a trust from Allah; their protection, training, and supervision are the primary responsibility of the father and mother.
Whenever a Muslim daughter or young person is seen in the wrong environment, the heart certainly aches, but along with that, we must also think about where the weaknesses have remained in the training of our homes. Good training, love, trust, and supervision – these are the things that can protect children from slips. For God's sake, pay attention to the correct Islamic training of your sisters, daughters, and sons. Stay informed about their friends, their environment, their behavior, and their education. A few moments of negligence sometimes become the cause of lifelong regret.
May Allah Almighty grant the entire Muslim Ummah a correct understanding of the religion. May He strengthen goodness, modesty, love, and religious training in our homes.
Aameen, O Lord of the Worlds.