Assalam-o-Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu 

There was a lot to write in this article 
But due to lack of time, I am presenting a summary.

Whatever thing, whether existential or external, should be kept at the same
,position and status it holds, it is better to keep it there.
  
Otherwise, one has to wear the cloak of shame and humiliation like this:
Once upon a time in the operating theater 
Before giving the anesthesia injection for the operation, the doctor asked the patient: How old are you?

The patient said: 28 years old

The doctor said: Madam, are you sure that this is your age because I have to determine the amount of anesthesia medicine according to your age.

The patient said: 30 years old

The doctor then said: You should see, with a lower or higher dose of medicine, the patient either regains consciousness during the operation or can even go into a coma.

Patient: 38 years old

The doctor then said: If you tell the wrong age, the direct effect of the lower or higher dose of medicine falls on the kidneys and they can also fail.

The patient shouted: 49 years old, and now even if my dead body comes out of the operating theater, I will not increase my age any more than this.
😊😊

Urwa Ji