💐Delay in Marriage: A Profound Impact on Intellectual Structure🍂
Gul Riza Rahi Arariavi ✍🏻
✍🏻For the decline of any nation, it is sufficient that they disregard their religious principles and customs, and sever ties; then the survival of its existence is also at risk.
And this deficiency is found in the Muslim Ummah, due to which the result is evident before us.
The more deviation from the commandments of God and the Sunnah of the Prophet that is found in our nation, the more it is the cause of its humiliation, disgrace, and tribulations.
Nowadays, the delay in the marriage of daughters of the nation and sons of the community is knocking on the doors of many tribulations. Due to this, indecency, obscenity, and nakedness are being openly displayed.
It is having a profound impact on society and community, human structure is being affected, and social media is providing it with more opportunities and platforms.
Pure thoughts are also appearing to become the center of impurities and filth. The deception of adultery, obscenity, and love is gaining momentum. The permanent curses like apostasy are being embraced by the children of our homes with enthusiasm.
Those eyes that should always be lowered, which should have the kohl of modesty, which should have the ornament of purity, are becoming the center of impurities. The undue pursuit of sexual gratification is throwing them into the depths of degradation.
The commandments of God are being mocked. The display of the body and liberal thinking are inviting a dangerous path, the end and destination of which is a center of immense heat and intensity, filled with fear and horror.
Due to this, the young generation is losing the energy of their hearts and minds. Intellectual maturity and revolutionary zeal are constantly moving on the path of superficiality. Young boys and girls are destroying their lives by becoming the زینت (beauty/decoration) of social media, auctioning off their honor, defaming the upbringing of their parents, and becoming a source of finger-pointing. This is why they find worship, devotion, and recitation of the Quran burdensome and heavy. They run away from worship and ignore the commandments of God.
As much as the boys and girls are at fault in this, the guardians and supervisors are even more at fault, who are still looking for more time for them even after they have reached puberty.
This tribulation is at its peak these days, whereas the teaching of Islam is to hasten the marriage of boys and girls.
Most, rather more than ninety percent, of the incidents of apostasy that have occurred and been observed are those whose age is more than 18/20 years, because when boys and girls reach puberty, sexual desires begin to emerge. They want to satisfy it. If they are not helped in such a situation, and a legitimate and honorable path is not adopted, then they find the opposite path, and then the result that comes before us is beyond any description.
The Muslim Ummah is incorporating the traditions of non-Muslims into their Islamic practices, making the easy act of worship like marriage difficult and a challenge.
Unnecessary customs and extravagance in marriage ceremonies have deprived our sisters of this great act of worship and virtue. Their nights' sleep is being affected, and the pain of loneliness and the feeling of separation are forcing them to take illegitimate steps.
Today, if the daughters and sons of the nation are on the verge of straying, it is not only due to their own initiative, but the entire nation is equally involved in its sin, because they have played their role well in obstructing this legitimate and easy path and the principles of Sharia through frivolous and formal ceremonies and demands.
Today, if the entire Muslim Ummah unanimously decides that we will perform marriage and other household affairs and all aspects of life according to Sharia, then we will also protect the honor of our home. We will be blessed with chastity, purity of sight, intellectual maturity, revolutionary zeal, and tenderness of heart and sight, which is missing within us, whereas this is what Allah Almighty desires.
Therefore, the influential people of the Muslim Ummah should start a practical movement of Prophetic marriage and start it with wealthy and influential people, only then will the tribulations be prevented, otherwise, the Muslim Ummah in general and the daughters of the nation in particular will move more rapidly on the path of apostasy.
May Allah Almighty grant us sound understanding, Amen.
Gul Riza Rahi Arariavi ✍🏻
✍🏻For the decline of any nation, it is sufficient that they disregard their religious principles and customs, and sever ties; then the survival of its existence is also at risk.
And this deficiency is found in the Muslim Ummah, due to which the result is evident before us.
The more deviation from the commandments of God and the Sunnah of the Prophet that is found in our nation, the more it is the cause of its humiliation, disgrace, and tribulations.
Nowadays, the delay in the marriage of daughters of the nation and sons of the community is knocking on the doors of many tribulations. Due to this, indecency, obscenity, and nakedness are being openly displayed.
It is having a profound impact on society and community, human structure is being affected, and social media is providing it with more opportunities and platforms.
Pure thoughts are also appearing to become the center of impurities and filth. The deception of adultery, obscenity, and love is gaining momentum. The permanent curses like apostasy are being embraced by the children of our homes with enthusiasm.
Those eyes that should always be lowered, which should have the kohl of modesty, which should have the ornament of purity, are becoming the center of impurities. The undue pursuit of sexual gratification is throwing them into the depths of degradation.
The commandments of God are being mocked. The display of the body and liberal thinking are inviting a dangerous path, the end and destination of which is a center of immense heat and intensity, filled with fear and horror.
Due to this, the young generation is losing the energy of their hearts and minds. Intellectual maturity and revolutionary zeal are constantly moving on the path of superficiality. Young boys and girls are destroying their lives by becoming the زینت (beauty/decoration) of social media, auctioning off their honor, defaming the upbringing of their parents, and becoming a source of finger-pointing. This is why they find worship, devotion, and recitation of the Quran burdensome and heavy. They run away from worship and ignore the commandments of God.
As much as the boys and girls are at fault in this, the guardians and supervisors are even more at fault, who are still looking for more time for them even after they have reached puberty.
This tribulation is at its peak these days, whereas the teaching of Islam is to hasten the marriage of boys and girls.
Most, rather more than ninety percent, of the incidents of apostasy that have occurred and been observed are those whose age is more than 18/20 years, because when boys and girls reach puberty, sexual desires begin to emerge. They want to satisfy it. If they are not helped in such a situation, and a legitimate and honorable path is not adopted, then they find the opposite path, and then the result that comes before us is beyond any description.
The Muslim Ummah is incorporating the traditions of non-Muslims into their Islamic practices, making the easy act of worship like marriage difficult and a challenge.
Unnecessary customs and extravagance in marriage ceremonies have deprived our sisters of this great act of worship and virtue. Their nights' sleep is being affected, and the pain of loneliness and the feeling of separation are forcing them to take illegitimate steps.
Today, if the daughters and sons of the nation are on the verge of straying, it is not only due to their own initiative, but the entire nation is equally involved in its sin, because they have played their role well in obstructing this legitimate and easy path and the principles of Sharia through frivolous and formal ceremonies and demands.
Today, if the entire Muslim Ummah unanimously decides that we will perform marriage and other household affairs and all aspects of life according to Sharia, then we will also protect the honor of our home. We will be blessed with chastity, purity of sight, intellectual maturity, revolutionary zeal, and tenderness of heart and sight, which is missing within us, whereas this is what Allah Almighty desires.
Therefore, the influential people of the Muslim Ummah should start a practical movement of Prophetic marriage and start it with wealthy and influential people, only then will the tribulations be prevented, otherwise, the Muslim Ummah in general and the daughters of the nation in particular will move more rapidly on the path of apostasy.
May Allah Almighty grant us sound understanding, Amen.