Are you unintentionally cursing yourself?

Are you unintentionally cursing yourself?!

A woman says that I was doing housework in the kitchen at night when my brother came to me and said that whenever I see you, you are always in the kitchen, so I got annoyed and said that this is because you didn't pray to Allah for me to get rid of the kitchen. 
Then suddenly I thought and this saying of Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal (may Allah have mercy on him) came to my mind that he says I prayed to Allah to become a Hafiz of the Quran, but I did not pray that I complete the memorization in a state of well-being, so I completed the memorization but in jail!!!
So I immediately realized and I said to my brother that you must pray for me, but also pray that Allah Almighty may save me from the kitchen, but with well-being and health, lest I become ill, disabled, and because of illness I get away from the kitchen and my prayer is accepted, but I fall into another trial.
Then I said to my daughters that whenever someone has to pray, they should pray, but also ask Allah Almighty for well-being, that Allah Almighty may give them that blessing, but in a state of well-being and health, so one of my daughters said to me that she knows a woman who prayed to Allah Almighty to give her 3 million rupees and that she should get these 3 million without any effort!! She says, by Allah, not much time had passed when a time came that Allah gave her 3 million rupees without any effort.

When her son died in an accident and she was given 3 million rupees as compensation.

🪷*Lesson and Advice*
When you ask Allah for wealth, say, O Allah, give me wealth with well-being, which becomes a cause of well-being in my religion and my world. 
When you ask Allah for a wife or husband, do not just ask for a companion, but say, O Allah, give me a good companion who helps me in religion and the world. When you ask for children, do not say give me children, but say, O Allah, give me good and righteous children who help me in religion and the world and become the coolness of my eyes, become peace, become a continuous charity for me. 

And (behold) man prays for evil as he prays for good; and man is ever hasty (Surah Toba)

---From Muhammad Sajid Qasmi