Household disputes and children's silent wounds
Household disputes don't just remain a matter between two adults,
their voice reaches the hearts of children first.
Those children who used to sleep laughing,
slowly become silent.
They stop asking questions,
and hide their fear behind a smile.
Even if children don't understand the words,
they fully feel the anger, hatred, and bitterness.
Every loud voice instills fear in their hearts,
and every day's quarrel creates insecurity within them.
The child who is silent today,
tomorrow will either become extremely stubborn
or will start considering himself completely worthless.
Remember!
Children don't learn what we say,
children learn what we do.
If there is patience in the house, they will learn patience,
if there is respect, they will learn respect,
and if there is conflict,
that same conflict will become their personality.
Don't bring your differences in front of the children.
For them, make the house
not a battlefield,
but a place of peace.
Sometimes pause for a moment and think:
Your one silence
can secure your child's entire life.
Because children are heirs not only to our words,
but also to our behaviors.
Ayesha ❤